~Mahatma Ghandi
Mathieu: “The Honey Badger is that man on the
field. He’s wild. He’s flying around hitting people.”
Sanders: “What about off the field?”
Mathieu: “Man…he’s that guy wanting to go to
the clubs…hanging out with the ladies…driving fine cars.
Sanders: So who’s Tyrann?
Mathieu: Tyrann is quite…laid back. Tyrann is
the guy that tells the Honey Badger no, I don’t need to go out to the club…but
the Honey Badger says, come on, let’s go.”
Does this conflict sound familiar?Just like Tyrann, we all have an ongoing conversation among the different areas in our brain, each competing to control the single output of our behavior. As a result, we can accomplish these strange feats of arguing with ourselves, cursing at ourselves, and cajoling yourself to do something that we should or should not do.
We can easily see this when it comes to food…
When the
waitress at a restaurant offers chocolate cake, you find yourself on the edge
of a dilemma…certain parts of your brain have evolved to crave the rich energy
source of sugar, and the other parts care about the negative consequences, such
as the health of your heart or the bulge of your butt.
Part of you
(Honey Badger) wants to eat the cake, and part of you (Tyrann) tries to muster
the discipline to forgo it. The final vote “to eat, or not to eat” determines
which area of your brain controls your actions…that is, whether you put your
hand out or up. In the end, you either eat the chocolate cake or you do not,
but you cannot do both.
The Honey Badger is never gone.
Tyrann went
on the say that the Honey Badger is gone…he’s no longer a part of him.
Make no
mistake about it… The Honey Badger (a.k.a. Limbic area) is a part of all of us…it’s
never gone.
The Honey
Badger is our will…our drive…our desires. Ironically it brings the most
pleasure, and unfortunately provides the most pain.
Tyrann is
the executive director of our behavior…making decisions that are in our best
interest.
Who’s in
control in your life?
Honey
Badger?
Tyrann?
“Some pleasures are not worth having
because they lead to greater pains, and some pains are worthwhile when they
lead to greater pleasures. The best strategy for attaining a maximal amount of
pleasure overall is not to seek instant gratification but to work out a
sensible long term policy”
~Epicurus