Saturday, August 31, 2024

The Reality


By Kelly Hitchcock


The reality of the world

It’s indifferent to you and me

Life is contingent on birth and death

That’s it - It's a paradoxical irony


Our modern eyes have become distorted

We see complete order - are we all fools?

We ignore the obvious

Survival is the exception, death is the rule


We try hard to save the world

As if it needs to be saved

We obsessively worry all through the night

And we frantically pray during the day


We do all we can to ignore or avoid the obvious

The internal narrative we push down deep inside

We are afraid to acknowledge it

We're scared of what lies on the other side


So we make a stronger drink

We smoke or eat so much we can't breathe

We watch a movie

Try to have sex - but one can't fulfill the deed


The reality - the world doesn't need our help

We are the poor souls about to die

Perhaps that's why this bothers you?

The real tragedy -  you and I





Wednesday, August 28, 2024

Awake for Change

The steps for behavioral change are often interconnected, and their order of importance can vary depending on the individual and the specific behavior being addressed. However, a general sequence from most to least important could look like this:


Awareness and Recognition: Understanding and accepting that a change is needed is the first and most crucial step. Without recognizing the need for change, no progress can be made.


Commitment and Motivation: Once aware, a strong commitment to change is essential. This includes having a clear motivation or reason for wanting to change, which will help sustain efforts over time.


Goal Setting: Establishing specific, measurable, and realistic goals provides a roadmap for the change process. This step involves breaking down the desired behavior into manageable steps.


Planning and Preparation: Developing a concrete plan for how to achieve these goals is critical. This might include identifying potential obstacles and planning how to overcome them.


Action and Implementation: This step involves taking the necessary actions to start the behavior change. It may require building new habits, eliminating old ones, or modifying existing behaviors.


Monitoring and Evaluation: Regularly assessing progress helps to stay on track and make necessary adjustments. This step also includes self-reflection to ensure that the changes are leading to the desired outcomes.


Support and Accountability: Having a support system or someone to hold you accountable can significantly improve the chances of success. This could involve friends, family, a coach, or a support group.


Maintenance and Sustainability: Ensuring that the new behavior is maintained over the long term is crucial. This step may involve reinforcing the behavior, adapting strategies as needed, and staying motivated.


Relapse Prevention and Management: Understanding that setbacks might occur and having a plan for how to handle them can prevent a complete return to old behaviors. This step is about resilience and learning from mistakes.



Monday, August 5, 2024

Friction


Swimming against the current

Walking into the wind

Trying to lift yourself up

After a "friend" knocks you down once again


Life's harsh reality:

Something will always block your way

Overcoming this truth

Begins with what you think, then say


What is, is

The moment quickly becomes the past

We either accept this truth

Or peace never last


The energy we give

Is often our first mistake

Emotions evoked

Brings an opportunity - motivation or hate


Say yes to this life—

The good, the bad, all it brings

This keeps us out of the fire

We can let go and not cling


What we resist persists

Take it in, let it flow, don't fight

Accepting reality

Unshackles the sufferings and fright


What we resist persist

Creating friction inside

Control the controllable

Now go live a good life


Thursday, August 1, 2024

Indifferent



A storm gathers on the horizon

I sense the pressure in the air

Seeking shelter from the chaos

Yet the world remains unaware


For the world is indifferent

Its axis turns without pause

It’s not events that disturb us

But the stories we make our cause


Thoughts give rise to emotions

Emotions dictate our way

We build an image of ourselves

A mask we wear every day


So let go of the narrative

You are not harsh words or fear

Be the observer of your life

Distract the mind, yet be clear


Amygdala's grip can seize us

Thoughts distorted, confused

Remember, what you choose to see

Shapes the world and all its hues


Hear the words and let them flow

To find peace, let knowledge go

To truly live and feel unconfined

All change must come from within the mind


Now you are free

With open eyes and a heart unchained

Though the world may remain the same

Inside, transformation is gained